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My Husband is a Sex Addict. What Should I Do?

April 13, 2020

Michael Horton

Marriage and Divorce

My Husband is a Sex Addict. What Should I Do?

25 min

Marriage and Divorce

My Husband is a Sex Addict. What Should I Do?

25 min

Episode 421 Show Notes

From the Show

He’s so deeply entrenched in the worship of an idol that he can’t treat you as God’s good gift to him. That’s his sin, and he needs to own up to it so that he can be forgiven and cleansed.

—Michael Horton

Questions in this Episode

1. If I repent for a sin and do it again later, does that mean I have never really repented? I have asked the Lord for forgiveness, but I still fall into the same sin over and over again. What am I doing wrong?

2. How literally should we take the verse that says we should love nothing in this world?

3. My husband is a sex addict and I have been married to him for 29 years and I have been struggling with praying for him and being a good wife? What should I do? What does the Bible say about a wife being married to a sex addict?

Resources

The Meaning of Marriage by Timothy Keller

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Michael Horton

Michael Horton (Ph.D., Wycliffe Hall, Oxford and Coventry University) is the J. Gresham Machen Professor of Systematic Theology and Apologetics at Westminster Seminary California and Founder & Editor-in-Chief of Sola Media.

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