Do Christians Always Have to Forgive?

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Do Christians Always Have to Forgive?

15 min

Watch On

CommunityVirtues

Do Christians Always Have to Forgive?

15 min

“If the all-holy God could forgive us, we who have so often violated his righteous commandments, and by our sins have shown contempt for his kindness and mercy, if this God could show you mercy, not repaying you according to your sins but offering you life, mercy, forgiveness in Jesus his son, then who are you, who are we, to withhold forgiveness as mortal men and women?”
-Pastor Adriel Sanchez

Should you forgive someone who hasn’t repented? Does forgiveness mean reconciling with an abuser? Pastor Adriel Sanchez unpacks the hard truths about forgiveness—what it is, what it isn’t, and why it doesn’t always mean reconciliation. Learn how Christians can navigate the tension between grace and wisdom, and when restoration is (and isn’t) the right path.

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Adriel Sanchez is the pastor of North Park Presbyterian Church (PCA) in San Diego, CA. He received his theological training from Westminster Seminary California and serves as host of Core Christianity. Adriel is the author of Praying with Jesus and, most recently, Why We Worship: Experiencing Heaven on Earth at Church. He and his wife, Ysabel, have six children.

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